You’ve been noticing the subtle shifts for a while now. Mom repeats herself more than usual. She loses her place in conversations. She hesitates before answering questions or forgets appointments she used to handle with ease. At first, you explain it away—she’s grieving Dad, the move was stressful, or maybe she’s just getting older. We all want to believe that. We want Mom to stay the strong, capable person we’ve always known. But then something changes. You realize this is

When families face the realities of dementia, chronic illness, or the everyday challenges of aging, it can feel overwhelming. Questions pile up quickly: Where do we start? Who do we call? How do we make the right decisions for today—and for the future? That’s where a Certified Care Manager (CMC) comes in.

Use these prompts to talk to your loved one about their care. Record their answers and wishes to share with other family members or the care team.

When a loved one begins showing signs of memory loss or a chronic condition like dementia, families often wait too long to talk. The result? Decisions made in crisis—when emotions are high, options are limited, and relationships are strained. At StilMee, we believe the best care begins with calm, clear conversations before the crisis. These early discussions can protect your loved one’s dignity, reduce family conflict, and pave the way for compassionate, coordinated care.